The introvert’s guide to starting university.
Table of contents
- The first meetings are the hardest
- Is introvert vs. extrovert just a buzzword?
- Are you an introvert? Here are the typical signs
- Adapt and leverage your introverted nature
- Quick guide to starting university
- DTU has become more aware
If you feel most comfortable in your own company, where the thought of standing in a circle and reciting 23 names including a fun fact about yourself makes you break out in a sweat, then starting university can be anything but the great experience you’ve been promised. However, there’s no reason you can’t have a good start to university, even though it often seems that icebreaker activities are designed on extroverts’ terms. That’s why we have a little guide for you, which can help you work with your strengths, stand by your preferences, and take things at your own pace while getting to know your fellow students and lecturers.
Are you introverted? Here are the typical signs
Leverage your introverted nature
Quick guide to starting university
1. Prepare mentally before starting
Understand that it’s okay to feel overwhelmed at first. Accept your feelings and give yourself time to adjust.
2. Research
Read about your course and university in advance. Find out where the quiet areas are, such as libraries or study rooms, where you can retreat when you need peace.
3. Choose activities carefully
Intro week can be overwhelming with many social activities. Choose the events that interest you the most and allow yourself to skip some if you need a break.
4. Small steps
Set small goals for yourself. For example, introduce yourself to one or two new people a day. This can be less intimidating than trying to meet many people at once.
5. Depth over breath
Focus on creating a few deep relationships rather than knowing many people on a superficial level. Find fellow students with common interests.
6. Listen and observe
Introverts often have good listening skills. Use this to your advantage by listening to others and observing the dynamics in social situations before participating actively.
7. Find like-minded people
Join clubs and societies that match your interests. It’s a good way to meet people in a less intense setting.
8. Structure and planning
Create a fixed study schedule and stick to it. Structure can provide you with calm and predictability.
9. Your own pace
Do things at times when you feel most energetic and focused. Many introverts work best alone and at their own pace.
10. Prioritize alone time
Ensure you have time alone to recharge. Plan breaks between lectures and social activities.
11. Self-care
Do things that help you relax and feel good. Read a book, take a walk, or something else entirely.
12. Set boundaries
It’s important to be able to say no to social events if you feel overwhelmed. People will often understand if you communicate your needs honestly.
13. Talk to your advisor
Your academic advisor can provide advice and support if you feel overwhelmed.
14. Use counseling services
Many universities offer psychological counseling and support. It can be a good resource if you feel stressed or have anxiety-like symptoms.